Grace Bennett Lust, Love, and Attachment Ever wondered why some days you can’t keep your hands off each other, while other times you’re more about cuddling on the couch? It’s because desire in relationships isn’t just one thing – it’s actually a mix of three different drives: lust, love, and attachment. Each one plays its own role … Read more
We’ve all heard it at some point. Maybe a well-meaning friend suggested it, or maybe you’ve told yourself: “Just have sex. It’ll fix things.” But the reality is, that advice often does more harm than good. If it were that simple, you wouldn’t be here reading this, right? The truth is, relationships are complicated, and … Read more
You’ve heard it before, right? “Just do it.” As if rekindling desire in your relationship is as simple as flipping a switch. But if it were that easy, you wouldn’t be here looking for answers. Because let’s face it – desire is complicated, messy, and sometimes frustrating. It’s not something you can force. And the … Read more
Let’s get real for a minute. We all know that relationships aren’t always smooth sailing, especially when it comes to sex. Sometimes, without even realizing it, we start using sex as a way to get back at our partner – or maybe just to feel like we’re in control. It happens. But if you’re tired … Read more
Ever found yourself wondering, “What’s wrong with us?” because your sex life isn’t as hot and heavy as it used to be? Or maybe things never got off the ground quite like you expected? First things first – you’re not broken. Desire problems happen in every relationship. Yes, even the couples who seem like they … Read more
We’ve all been there, right? You’re in a relationship, and suddenly you’re walking a tightrope between closeness and space, intimacy and independence. It’s tricky! One minute you want to be wrapped up in each other’s world, the next you’re itching for a little “me time.” But guess what? You’re not alone in this. Finding that … Read more
Monogamy and Desire: How to Keep Your Love Alive Without Sacrificing Your Freedom Hey friend, let’s get real for a minute. If you’ve been in a long-term, monogamous relationship, chances are you’ve wondered how to keep the passion alive without feeling like you’re giving up your sense of freedom. It’s one of those tricky balancing … Read more
Sexual Boredom Is Normal: How to Turn Routine into Revitalizing Passion Hey friend, let’s talk about something that no one likes to admit but everyone goes through—sexual boredom. Yep, it happens to the best of us. You’re not alone if the passion in your relationship has shifted from hot and steamy to lukewarm or, let’s … Read more
Hey friend, let’s have an honest chat. If you’ve ever felt like the intimacy in your relationship is stuck, especially when one person has a higher sex drive than the other, you’re not alone. It’s a super common situation, and it can leave both partners feeling confused, frustrated, and a bit lost. Here’s the thing: … Read more
Hey friend, let’s talk about something we’ve all experienced at some point—feeling stuck in a relationship. You know that frustrating, heart-tugging feeling when you and your partner can’t seem to see eye to eye? When no matter what you say, it feels like you’re talking past each other or going around in circles? Yep, that’s … Read more