Why Loving Yourself First Is Not Just a Cliché

We hear it all the time: “You have to love yourself first.” It’s advice that gets tossed around so much, it’s easy to roll your eyes at it. But let’s pause for a moment and look a little closer. What does “loving yourself” really mean? And why is it so important before stepping into or … Read more

The Silent Pain of Feeling Like an Option

Let’s get real for a second—feeling like someone’s “option” is one of the most painful experiences in a relationship. It’s that lingering feeling that you’re not quite a priority, that you’re waiting around for someone else to decide if you’re “worth it.” And honestly, it’s exhausting. If this is how you’re feeling, know that you’re … Read more

How to Be Okay with Walking Away When It’s Not Right

Let’s talk about something that can feel both freeing and terrifying: walking away when it’s not right. We’ve all been there, stuck in situations or relationships that just don’t feel right, hoping things will somehow work out. But deep down, there’s a part of you that knows it’s not going to give you what you … Read more

How to Stop Obsessing Over His Attention and Focus on Your Happiness

You know that feeling—checking your phone every few minutes, wondering if he’s going to text you back. Thinking about what he meant by that one word or replaying conversations in your head like a broken record. It’s exhausting. It can feel like your whole world revolves around whether or not he’s paying attention to you. … Read more