Lonely but Not Alone: How to Deal with Emotional Disconnection in Your Relationship

Have you ever sat right next to your partner but felt like you’re a million miles apart? You’re physically together, sharing space, maybe even sharing a life—but something’s off. The spark is gone, the conversations are shallow, and you feel lonely, but not alone. Emotional disconnection can creep into any relationship, even the strongest ones. … Read more

Understanding the Three Drives of Desire in Your Relationship

Lust, Love, and Attachment Ever wondered why some days you can’t keep your hands off each other, while other times you’re more about cuddling on the couch? It’s because desire in relationships isn’t just one thing – it’s actually a mix of three different drives: lust, love, and attachment. Each one plays its own role … Read more

How to Stop Using Sex as a Weapon in Your Relationship

Let’s get real for a minute. We all know that relationships aren’t always smooth sailing, especially when it comes to sex. Sometimes, without even realizing it, we start using sex as a way to get back at our partner – or maybe just to feel like we’re in control. It happens. But if you’re tired … Read more

How Low Desire Shapes Your Sex Life

Hey, love. Can we have a real talk about something that no one seems to openly discuss? Yep, you guessed it—sex, specifically how one partner, the one with the lower desire, can often hold a quiet, almost invisible control over your sex life. It’s not something we usually talk about, but we need to. So … Read more