Why Am I Always the One Trying Harder? Rebalancing Effort in Love

Relationships should feel like a dance—sometimes you lead, and other times, you let your partner take the spotlight. But what happens when you feel like you’re the one always putting in the work, making plans, checking in, and trying to keep things together? It’s exhausting. And it can make you question whether this relationship is … Read more

Feeling Invisible in Love: Why Some Partners Just Don’t ‘See’ Us

There’s a unique kind of loneliness that comes from feeling invisible in a relationship. You’re right there, sharing your life with someone, but sometimes it feels like they don’t truly “see” you. You’re longing for recognition, attention, and connection, yet you’re left wondering if your partner even knows who you are at your core. If … Read more

The Emotional Toll of Always Being the One Who Cares More

Let’s be real—it’s exhausting to always be the one who cares more. You’re the one putting in the effort, reaching out, making plans, and checking in, while the other person just seems to coast along. If you feel like you’re constantly giving 110% and barely getting 50% back, you’re not alone. Being the one who … Read more