Why Am I Always the One Trying Harder? Rebalancing Effort in Love

Relationships should feel like a dance—sometimes you lead, and other times, you let your partner take the spotlight. But what happens when you feel like you’re the one always putting in the work, making plans, checking in, and trying to keep things together? It’s exhausting. And it can make you question whether this relationship is … Read more

The Difference Between Loving Him and Needing Him

It’s natural to want love in your life. We all do. But sometimes, the lines between loving someone and needing them can get a little blurry. It’s easy to confuse the two, especially when you’re in a relationship that feels intense, all-consuming, or just plain comfortable. But here’s the thing: love and need aren’t the … Read more

The Emotional Toll of Always Being the One Who Cares More

Let’s be real—it’s exhausting to always be the one who cares more. You’re the one putting in the effort, reaching out, making plans, and checking in, while the other person just seems to coast along. If you feel like you’re constantly giving 110% and barely getting 50% back, you’re not alone. Being the one who … Read more