Why Am I Always the One Trying Harder? Rebalancing Effort in Love

Relationships should feel like a dance—sometimes you lead, and other times, you let your partner take the spotlight. But what happens when you feel like you’re the one always putting in the work, making plans, checking in, and trying to keep things together? It’s exhausting. And it can make you question whether this relationship is … Read more

When You’re Tired of Trying So Hard and Getting Nowhere

Sometimes, no matter how much love, effort, and patience you pour into a relationship, it feels like you’re stuck. You’re bending over backward, giving everything you have, but things just aren’t changing. It’s exhausting, draining, and makes you wonder, When is it enough? If this sounds familiar, let me start by saying: You’re not alone. … Read more