The Silent Pain of Feeling Like an Option

Let’s get real for a second—feeling like someone’s “option” is one of the most painful experiences in a relationship. It’s that lingering feeling that you’re not quite a priority, that you’re waiting around for someone else to decide if you’re “worth it.” And honestly, it’s exhausting. If this is how you’re feeling, know that you’re … Read more

Why It’s Okay to Want More Than Just ‘Good Enough’

Sometimes, it feels like there’s an invisible line we’re all supposed to toe. You’re not “supposed” to want too much or ask for more. You’re supposed to be happy with “good enough.” But here’s the truth: It’s absolutely okay to want more than just good enough. In fact, settling for less than what truly fulfills … Read more

Navigating the Pain of Seeing Everyone Else Settle Down When You’re Still Searching

You’re at another engagement party, scrolling past yet another “we’re pregnant!” post, or sitting through a friend’s story about their latest wedding planning adventures. Meanwhile, you’re still swiping, still hoping, still searching. It’s tough, right? It feels like everyone else is settling down, finding their person, and checking off those life milestones one by one. … Read more