When it comes to relationships, figuring out whether you’re settling or being realistic can feel like walking a tightrope. You want to find someone who checks off your boxes, but you also don’t want to hold out for perfection. So how do you know when it’s time to stick it out and when it’s time … Read more
In relationships, feeling loved and valued should be a given. But sometimes, a little voice in our heads keeps whispering, “Am I good enough?” Self-doubt can creep in, even when our partner is kind and supportive. It’s easy to dismiss this as insecurity, but self-doubt has deeper roots and, in many cases, is tied to … Read more
There’s a tough, heart-wrenching place so many of us find ourselves in at some point—the place between staying in a relationship that’s just not right and facing the fear of being alone. It’s a confusing, emotional crossroads. On one hand, there’s the pain of staying in a situation that drains you. On the other, the … Read more
Sometimes, no matter how much love, effort, and patience you pour into a relationship, it feels like you’re stuck. You’re bending over backward, giving everything you have, but things just aren’t changing. It’s exhausting, draining, and makes you wonder, When is it enough? If this sounds familiar, let me start by saying: You’re not alone. … Read more
Let’s talk about something so many of us struggle with—seeking approval. If you find yourself constantly looking for validation from your partner or others in your life, you’re definitely not alone. Many of us have fallen into this habit, whether it’s needing reassurance, worrying about what he thinks, or adjusting ourselves just to make someone … Read more
Sometimes, love can feel like a game you never quite win. One moment, you feel close, and the next, there’s a distance. Or maybe you’re constantly trying to “play it cool,” guessing what he’s thinking, or overanalyzing every text. It can feel exhausting and leave you wondering if this is what love is supposed to … Read more
We hear it all the time: “You have to love yourself first.” It’s advice that gets tossed around so much, it’s easy to roll your eyes at it. But let’s pause for a moment and look a little closer. What does “loving yourself” really mean? And why is it so important before stepping into or … Read more
So, you’ve been seeing him for a while, and things feel great…until you bring up the future. Each time commitment comes up, he gets evasive, says he’s “not ready,” or avoids the conversation entirely. It’s left you feeling confused and maybe even doubting your own worth. But here’s the truth: you deserve someone who sees … Read more
Let’s talk about something that can be a little hard to admit: sometimes, we settle for just attention instead of true, deep connection. We tell ourselves, “He’s showing interest,” or “He texts me,” and we start to convince ourselves that this is enough. But you deserve so much more than just flashes of attention here … Read more
Let’s get real for a second—feeling like someone’s “option” is one of the most painful experiences in a relationship. It’s that lingering feeling that you’re not quite a priority, that you’re waiting around for someone else to decide if you’re “worth it.” And honestly, it’s exhausting. If this is how you’re feeling, know that you’re … Read more